After talking with my son's principal, I have been looking into ordering some videos that might help explain Aspergers. So many schools are in this same position of having questions and needing some answers. It's not a matter of whether they care, they do, but as parents, we can pull together and provide the materials needed. If they are willing to work with our kids, the least we can do is meet them in the middle and give them the necessary materials.
Here is a good start. A huge list of DVD's you can purchase for your school to educate teachers and even students on Aspergers/Autism/SPD.
Here is also another suggestion of a friend that bought this for her school: